Mwaramutse bavandimwe, nshimishijwe no kubona akanya ngo mbagishe inama kuko mufasha benshi. Nashakanye n’umugabo dufitanye abana batanu, nyuma nza kumva ko yabyaye undi hanze mubajije arabinyemerera ansaba imbabazi, ndamubabarira ubuzima burakomeza ariko atangira kugira stress yo kwita ku mwana na nyina. Rimwe yajyaga abimbwira ubundi akicecekera akabyibikaho wenyine, ariko noneho naje gusanga agenda ahinduka ku […]Irambuye

Ndi umubyeyi narabyaye ndashyingiza, ariko ikibazo mfite ngishaho inama si icyo ngicyo. Mu minsi mike ishize niteguraga guhagarara mu mwanya w’umubyeyi wa batisumu mu bukwe bw’umwana w’inshuti yanjye y’igihe kirekire nabyaye muri batisimu akaba yari ageze igihe cyo gushyingirwa. Uko byagenze, uwo mwana yashimanye n’umukunzi we biyemeza kutwereka ibirori, turitegura barasaba ndetse barakwa, ubwo twari […]Irambuye

Mwaramutse bavandimwe, nifujeko mwangira inama ku kibazo mfite murugo. Ndi umugabo wubatse ufite umugore n’abana 3, tumaranye imyaka 8 dushakanye, tubanye neza cyane, ntabwo muca inyuma kandi ndizerako nawe atanca inyuma. Turimo kubaka inzu ku mafaranga ya credit twasabye muri Bank. Mu minsi yashize twabikuje miliyoni 1.500.000frw yo kubakisha, ndayamuha kugirango abe ayabitse, ngiye kuyamusaba […]Irambuye

Muraho neza nshuti za Umuseke. Ndabanza nshimire uwatekereje gushyiraho uru rubuga agakomeza agenera umwanya abafite ibibazo bifuza kugishaho inama. Reka tukwifurize kugirirwa neza n’Imana iguha mutaguze. Njye ndi umukobwa mukuru. Nagiriwe ubuntu mbasha kwiga, nize secondaire mu Rwanda Kaminuza nayize muri Uganda gusa sinahise mbona akazi nabaye mu bushomeri igihe kirekire nyuma naje kubona akazi […]Irambuye

Bakunzi ba Umuseke, nkora akazi ko kurinda umutekano w’igihugu n’ubusugire bwacyo, mfite imyaka 28, ndacyari ingaragu, ariko nahemukiwe n’uwo nifuzaga kurwubakana na we nkeneye ko mumpa inama n’impanuro. Mu by’ukuri nakundanye n’umukobwa, igihe kirekire nta buryarya kandi na we nkabona ankunda cyane, nyuma twaje kwiyemeza kubana ndetse imigenzo y’ubukwe bwa Kinyarwanda ndayitangira. Ubwo twateganyaga kurushinga, […]Irambuye

Mbanje kubasuhuza basomyi b’Umuseke, mungire inama,kuko niho tucyubaka urugo ariko ndikwibaza niba ntarahubutse nkibaza n’uko nabigenza amazi atararenga inkombe. Hashize umwaka n’igice twubatse urugo, umugabo wanjye twamenyanye naje mu biruhuko mu Rwanda, anyereka ko anyitayeho cyane karahava nanjye nari namukunze cyane ku buryo nyuma y’umwaka nagarutse kumureba ndetse umwaka wakurikiyeho dukora marriage. Murumva twakundanye nko […]Irambuye

Bavandimwe ba Umuseke, muraho neza Yesu abagirire neza, ndi umusore ugeze igihe cyo gushaka ariko ubu nabihiwe n’ubuzima. Mu by’ukuri nakunze umukobwa na we mbona ankunda, tugera igihe twiyemeza kurushinga tukava mu buzima bwo kubana n’ababyeyi tugashinga urugo rwacu, twese tubyemeranyaho. Birumvikana nk’uko mu muco wa Kinyarwanda bigenda, ishimwe ry’ababyeyi ‘inkwano’ narayitanze, twumvikana n’umukobwa igihe […]Irambuye

Mwaramutse bakunzi b’Umuseke. Nanjye ndashaka kubagisha inama ku kibazo mfite kinkomereye. Natandukanye n’umugabo wanjye tumaze igihe kitari kinini twimarié, dufitanye abana batatu, njye mfite imyaka 35. Tumaze imyaka itatu dutandukanye, kandi mu gutandukana kwacu byatewe n’umu ex we wo mu busore bwe nawe wari wari marié akaba nawe yaratandukanye n’umugabo we kubera ko yamucaga inyuma, […]Irambuye

Bakunzi ba Umuseke nejejwe no kubasangiza ikibazo kimpangayikishije kikanshengura umutima, kijyanye n’ubuzima bw’urukundo bwa musaza wanjye. Mu by’ukuri musaza wanjye ni umusore mwiza, arasenga ndetse mbona yitonda nk’urikije uko muzi, afite imyaka yo kuba yakubaka urugo ndetse akora akazi keza ko kwikorera. Mu gihe gishize naratunguwe anyeretse umukobwa bakundana ndetse afiteho imigambi yo kuzagira umugore. […]Irambuye

Muraho neza Basomyi b’Umuseke? Nanjye nifuje kubagisha inama ku kibazo kinkomereye cyane kuko ngomba gufata icyemezo (decision) gikomeye cyane kandi gishobora kugira ingaruka nziza cyangwa mbi ku buzima bw’umuryango wanjye. Ikibazo giteye gitya: ndi umumama w’imyaka 35 nkaba mfite umugabo (mariée) dufite abana batanu. Umugabo wanjye na we aracyari muto kuko turangana, twabanye tukiri bato. […]Irambuye