Umugabo amaze imyaka 15 yarantaye none aragarutse
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Nanjye rero ndafite ikibazo nifuzako mungiraho inama: Nabyaranye n’umugabo hashize imyaka 15, icyo gihe yari akiri umusore naho jye narinsanzwe mfite umwana, ariko ubwo tukaba twarimo dufiyansanya twitegura kuzarushinga.
Amaze kuntera inda yahise andeka ashaka undi, baje gutandukana (divorce) nyuma y’imyaka 4 gusa bamaze kubyarana kabiri.
Muri ibyo bihe akimara gukora divorce yahise ansaba ko naza tukabana ariko ndamuhakanira, none ubu yaragarutse ahora ansaba ko namwemerera ngo tubane ariko jye sinzi icyemezo nafata kuko na nyuma yo kundeka ntwite ntabwo yigeze amfasha mu byerekeranye no kurera umwana kandi afite ubushobozi, kugeza ubu umwana arimo yiga muri secondaire ntabwo yigeze amumenya cg se byibuze ngo amwishyurire ishuri kandi ntarahwemye kumutelefona mbimusaba aho kugira icyo akora akambwira ngo nimuhe umwana we amwirerere.
Cyakoze muri iyi myaka ishize uko ari 15 yishyuye minerval inshuro eshatu gusa umwana acyiga muri primaire (yigaga primaire privé).
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INAMA NAKUGIRA NUKO WAREBA KURE ,UKABANZA AKAMENYA NIBA ADAKURIKIYE IBYO UMAZE KUGERAHO ,HANYUMA WASANGA ATARI UBUTUNZI BWAWE YIFUZA UKABA WAMUBABARIRA KUKO ASHOBORA KUBA YARI YARAYOBYE NONE AKABA YAGARUTSE ,WITONDE ASHOBORA KUBA YARASHOMEREYE AKABA ASHAKA KUZA KUKURYA UTWA UMAZE KUGERAHO AKAZONGERA AKAGUTA .NGAHO SAWA IMANA IGUHE UBUSHISHOZI.
Ni ukuri ndagushimiye kubw’inama yihuse kandi nziza mungiriye, gusa icyo nakubwira arifashije kuburyo ntakeka ko ashaka guprofita ibyo nagezeho.
wiriwe ndagarutse,njye ndi umugabo ndubatse ,kuri iyisi dutuye nkunze kubona abagabo basiga abagore babo batwite bakagenda mubyukuri suko baba banze abagore babo ariko bahita bagaruka iyo abagore babo bamaze kubyara ,uriko urumva ko uwawe yamaze imyaka cumi ni tanu yose bityo rero banza usubize amaso inyuma urebe icyo mwapfuye niba mutazongera ngo mugipfe,urebe niba ntabibazo ,cyangwa ingaruka wazagira nyuma yuko waba ugarukiwe n’umugabo wawe,nabyishimo ,kandi ninumunezero aramutse akugarukiye mugafatanya mukarerana abana mukunga ubumwe bwari bwaratakaye ntimukomeze gutera abana gahinda ko kubura uburere bwababyeyo bombi ,ariko nusanga ari kamere yifitemo uteganye ko nubundi nimuramuka mushatse kongera kunguka (kubyara undi mwana umenyeko azongera akaguta,hano rero urasabwa kongera agashishoza.ndabyumva uramukunda kandi nawe kurubu aragukunda kuko hari ibyiza yagusanganye atabonye aho yagiye,mufashe rero umubabarire nubona abikwiye.kandi ungeraho n’amasengesho kandi uzagerageze ukure umugabo wawe mubujiji afite k’umana,muzagarukire Imana mukizwe.Murakoze mugire amahoro y’Imana kandi nimusubirana muzagire urugo rwiza
nzi uwo inbi bintu byabayeho, umugabo amaze kwandura sida, aragaruka abwiraa umugore we ko ashaka ko babana!! witonde ushishoze! ndabizi kwibana winyine biragoye! nanjye ndibana, ariko rero uko bigora ni nako imana ikongerera ubwenge bwo gushishoza rwose!nkwifurije kuzafata decision nziza
Wa mudamu we rero, birakomeye, ikimugaruye ntabwo ari urukundo kuko yagombaga kurukwereka igihe wari utwite inda ye akemera mukabana niyo ntacyo mwari kuba mufite, ikimugaruye umugore yashatse amaze kumutesha umutwe cyangwa nawe ubwe ntashobotse. ikindi ni uko yakundaga uwo yari yarashatse kukurusha kuko yagutaye yaguteye inda agasanga uwonguwo, none se ni iki cyikubwirako wowe atazaguta. nakugira inama yo kwitonda ugashishoza. Gira amahoro
Mugore mwiza niba ntabana bandi wabyaranye nabandi bagabo , ILI IKITEGEREREZO rwose cyabagore bafite responsabilities !! ndumva nkemeye cyane kuba warabashije kwihanga ukarera umwana wawe !!!INAMA : uyu mugabo ntashobotse is very irresponsible man !!! kuba yarakwanze akanga nuwo mwabyaranye , byerekana ko niyo yagaruka ntacyo yaba agarukanye KUKO NTACYO AFITE MUBWONKO BWE !!!! Kuba afite ubutunzi that not make any sense , kuko mumyaka ishize yose wabayeho , urera umwana wawe mubihe byali bikomeye !!! NTUMWERERE KO MUBANA NABUSA !!!!!! AHUBWO NIBA HALI UNDI MUGABO WAKUBAYE HAFI NKINSHUTI AKAGUFASHA , AGUSABYE KO MUBANA NIWE WAKWEMERARA KURUSHA iyi nkono yamennye inyama ngo numugabo WAKONONEYE UBUZIMA MWIKUBITIRO AGUTERA INDA MUTAPANGIYE AKAKWANGA
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Yewe hariya kwari ugushimira utanze inama, si ukuvugako inamaye ariyo nahisemo cyane ko yari iya mbere, ikindi nashakaga kumumbwira kuri kiriya cyo guprofita ibyo nagezeho kuko atariko nabibonaga. Naho ubundi ntegereje inama zitandukanye hanyuma zose zikamfasha guhitamo igikwiye.
Mugore mwiza se ndahera he nguha inama? Ese ubundi niba asoma ibi ntazagufata nk’ utagira umutimanama,wasasa ibyanyu ku mbuga nk’ izi? Reba rero abyemprime (imprimer), nyuma y’ imyaka akjya agucyurira ati: yeee ! Ubwo rero ubushomeri bumfashe(umuntu wese byamubaho), ubwo ugiye kujya utekereza nka X ngo naje kuguprofita? Anyway,mri bakuru,mzaganire bihagije mgirane amsezerano clairs( ivangamtungo ryuzuye,muhahano,…..) ku mirererwe ‘abana b’amaharagutatu, cyane cyane AGUSOBANURIRE ICYAKUBENGESHEJE BWA MBERE, NIBA UKIGIHETSE WE KWIRIRWA UTA IGIHE. NIBICAMO UZATURARIKE BY UM– USEKE.COM, gira amhoro
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ikintu nize kubantu ni uko IF THEY DO IT ONCE, THEY WILL DO IT AGAIN
Akariro gake na feri.Imana izakubaza ubuzima bw’umubiri n’ubw’ubugingo bw’abana yaguhaye ntabwo izakubaza ubw’umugabo w’ikirara cyikunda cyane.Shinyiriza urere abana bawe.Biti hi se, kurikira uriya mugabo maze wibonere inkurikizi zo kudashishoza! Abana bawe bazababara, uzangana n’umugore usimbuye mu rugo, uzangana n’abana b’umugore usimbuye, ingeso mbi zatumaga umugabo aguta ubu zikubye kenshi,……byose bizarangira ubuze byose nk’ingata imennye.Ngayo nguko ahasigaye umwanzuro n’uwawe.Niba uzi gusenga bya nyabyo winjire mu isengesho Imana izakumurikira inzira nziza ikuganisha mu gakiza aho kugana mu cyaha cy’umugabo uhinduranya abagore nk’uko ahindura inkweto n’amasogisi.Wibuke ko na SIDA iriho ivuza ubuhuha! Ikikubwira ko ari mutaraga n’iki?????!!!!!!!!!??????
Nanjye ntyo muroko?
Murokore umubwije ukuri ese uwo mugabo agarutse kutamuhase ibibazo ngo umenye icyo agarutse kugushakaho ? uwo sumugabo imyaka 15 yose uba warashatse uwundi cg igumire uko Uri numwijiza murugo rwawe uzaba wikururiye ibibazo urukundo rwo ntarwo agufitiye akeneye umwitaho akamugaburira akamumesera ….. uwo sumugabo ibagirwe ntakimurimo .
Hari ibintu jye maze kubona neza. Inama yego zibaho, ariko akenshi umwanzuro ni uw` umuntu ku giti cye! Inama rero naguha madamu we, reba wowe ubwawe inshuro umutekerezaho ku munsi cg mu cyumweru, wibuke isura ye n` uko uba umubona( umwishimiye cg umubonamo……)hanyuma uvuge uti“ kugira ngo nturane n` umutimanama wanjye neza, ndabyemeye cyangwa ndabyanze, kuri buri cyemezo, witegure kuzakira ingaruka zaba nziza cg mbi, utegure umutima kuzabyakira , ubundi ufate umwanzuro kuko uri mukuru, kandi ni wowe uzi uko umutimaumukuganirizaho muri iki gihe!!!
waretse mukabana
Kuba yaguteye inda akagusiga agashaka undi bagatandukana nawe bishobora kuba uko kuko inkoni ikubise mucyeba uyirenza urugo.irerere abana bawe uzabona uwo mubyumva kimwe.
-wenda hari ababyita kwihagararaho ariko ndumva utakongera no kumureba irihumye. iyo uvuga ngo aragarutse, ukamwita umugabo kandi mu byukuri ntiyigeze aba umugabo wawe. yewe ntiyigeze anitwara kigabo na rimwe mu buzima bwe.wirebe urebe uko wabayeho naho ugeze urebe niba ukwiye gusazana numuntu nkuwo.akugarutseho kuko n’abagabo burya bajya bahura ningaruka zamateka mabi bagize.nyuma yo gutandukana nuwo mugore yashatse ntako atagize akubita hirya no hino ashaka inkumi zose ziramwanga. yibwiraga ko kuba yifashije bizamugongera uwo ashaka wese. none ararebye abona ashoboewe kandi ukiri aho none ati uriya we ntiyanyanga. ni mpamvu ki yatanye nuwo basezeranye bakananirwa kiyunga?uwo mugabo ni umwirasi n’umunyangeso mbi rwose sinibwira ko agarutse kuko agukunze cg se ashaka kugufasha kurera abana.aho yanyuze hose yahasize abana ubu se abo bandi bo abitaho?urashaka kubana numugabo uzi neza ko atanagira impuhwe zo kuba yakwita ku maraso ye?ubwo se umutezeho iki koko?ubwiwe niki umubare wabana afite hanze aho uretse abo 2 bandi uvuga?burya ububwa buba bwinshi, umugabo yakwihakana umukobwa yateye inda rwose ntamurongore ariko akita ku mwana yabyaye.numva umuntu utita ku mwana yabyaye nta mbabazi akwiye.-ndabona akugarutseho nka choix ya nyuma(umbabarire kuvuga gutya) kuko abuze uko agira kandi akaba aziko wowe ushoboye. nibyo uvuga ngo arifashije ntubizi neza. wamenya amadeni amugeze he?-ntiwanatubwiye icyo yagarutse avuga:hari urukundo akubwira, wowe se nturukeneye nyuma yiki gihe cyose?ntukeneye se kubana numuntu wizeye kandi utazahora wibaza niba ejo azagenda cg se niba ibiki?ntiwibaza se uko abana bazabyakira yinjira asohoka?-uravuga ko umwana we atamuzi none uzamubwira iki ureke iki? ko agarutse kuko amukunze?ko mbere yabaga ku wundi mugabane ariyo mpamvu atamwiyeretse?-ndabyumva kuba wenyine si ikintu ariko ntacyo wari ubaye kandi ibyiza biri imbere. ntuhubukire kwinjiza uwo mugabo mu buzima bwawe kuko igikomere yazongera kugutera ntiwazagikira.-niba umutima ukubwira kumuha amahirwe mugenze buhoro kandi umubwire ko imyifatire ye yo ha mbere ituma utamufungurira umuryango wubuzima bwawe gutyo gusa.akwereke ko yahindutse kandi numukeka kugira icyo aguhisha uhite ucaho.-muri make ubu ni wowe usifura muri icyo kibuga mugiye gukiniramo, niba umusbiranye ugomba kubimumenyesha naho ubundi azakoeza kugufata nkagatebo.
ntiwiyibagize ko umuntu ahinduka ariko?
Ndumiwe koko abagore banyurwa manuma umugabo gito nk,uwo koko utamenya nabo yabyaye iresponsable gusa ariko ubwo igitumye unamugarura mu mutwe wawe koko ni igiki nta rukundo agufitiye na busa icyo ugishyire ku ruhande kuko ntarwo yigeze menya neza ko burya abagabo akantu gato bagira kabarizwa ku bana et non ku mugore none iyo nibura avuga ko ashaka abana byari kugira ishingiro !plz mbabarira wirindeuwo muntu afite ikindi atekereza kinyuranye n,icyo wibwira mwivanemo kuko wazasara urwara za cancer kubera stress yaguteye kandi wari umaze kumwibagirwa
kumugoroba umugore yanteye icyuma mvuye mubitaro nako ni copine.mfite 26 we afite 23.
Uwo mugabo wari ukwiye mumubaza impamvu atandukanye nuwo mugore. Ikindi ntumwereke mbere ya byose ko mu byukuri wari warumiye kw’ishyiga none ukaba ugize amahirwe akakugarukira. Impamvu nuko muri we nawe ashobora kuba yumva ko washavuye ko utamwigizayo kandi mu gihe yagutaga warashavuye akabibona ariko akabyirengagiza. Ikindi nuko nkuko ubivuga azi ko ubona ko yifashije mu mitungo ko wowe umukeneye kurusha uko yagukenera. Uwo mugabo wakwiriye kumwicaza hasi udasusumira ukamwibutsa ibintu byose yagukoreye, kandi ukamubwira ko igihe wamukeneye atigeze akugirira impuhwe ko noneho (biraterwa nuko uwmiyumvamo burya abagore baroroha cyane) ubu ko yigaruye agomba kutakuzanaho igitugu n’ubugome ubwaribwo bwose,. Niba kandi ufashe icyemezo cyo kubana nawe, wihagarareho mwipimishe SIDA, mubinyuze mu nzira zose za ngombwa( gusaba, gukwa, gushyingirwa byemewe n’amategeko n’imbere y’Imana, etc) . Ntabwo ari byiza kumwemerera ibintu byose uko abisabye, ubu ni wowe ufite ijambo , niba adaciye bugufi rero nawe sinzi icyo waba ushaka kwikurururira icyoaricyo. Utubwire uko ubyumva.
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a hahahaha , yewe ni benshi basangiye iki kibazo!!! aribyo nuwanjye abibonye yagirango ni njye wagishije inama!!!
Hari uwavuze abana b’amahara gutatu ntiyavuge n’ababyeyi babo b’amahara kwinshi, none se wa mwana wari wisanganiwe Se nagaruka uzabigenza ute? cyangwa reka tuvuge no kubandi bana bazaza bakulikiye uwo mugabo ugarutse, uribaza ko nyina wabo azajya arebera umupira mukina hanze ntacyo abivugaho. Ca akenge muvandi aho wari wigejeje hari heza mbona wafungura paji yindi y’ubuzima ukava mu rusobe rw’utubazo tudashira. Imana igufashe.
Rwose nanjye ndi umudamu ubyaye ariko umugabo anyanze wenda navuga ngo hari ikitamunyuze bitewe nicyo twaba tutumvikanyeho.Ariko bavandimwe umugabo wanze umwana we?????? Imyaka 15 yose???? Uti muri cyo gihe cyose yamwishyuriye minerval inshuro 3 gusa????? Uti kandi ni umutunzi ntacyo abuze??? Bigaragaza ko ibyo yakoreye umwana yanga kumwitaho bwari ubugome atari abuze ubushobozi!!!! Yewe madame we rekana nuwo mugabo ukomeze wirerere abana neza naho uwo aje kongera kugutesha umutwe! Kdi burya akabaye Icwende… ntikoga!! Keretse nibura iyo utubwira ko yanze gufasha umwana Imyaka 2 cg3 umuntu yari kupfa kubyumva ariko Imyaka 15 yose??? Oya abadamu ntitukorohe mu mitwe ngo dukabye! Mureke rwose ntacyo uzaba!
ni byo koko uri umubyeyi inama yawe irabyerekana wahaye umwana agaciro kanini binteye emotion sinkubeshye.umuntu nakwange ariko nyabusa yibuke ko mwabyaranye burya akenshi abangana baba bafite ibyo bapfa, ariko se umwana apfa iki na se? AHAAA NI UKURI ABAGORE NATWE DUKABIJE GUKUNDA ABAGABO ese ubwo mu byukuri nkuyu mudamu yunvaga hari umuntu ufite ibitekerezo bizima yamugira inama yo kubana nuwo mugabo!! JYE NTAMUCIRIYE URUBANZA NUMVA YARAMWEMEREYE AHUBWO AGIRA NGO YUNVE ICYO TUBIVUGAHO. gusa amenye ko urwishe ya nka rukiyirimo ahasigaye umwanzuro ni uwe!!!
ibyaribyo byose gusaba inama nuko hari consideration uko yaba ingana kose umuha, rata kuba yaragiye 15 ans agashaka undi jye mbona uyu mugabo ari uwawe kandi uko bimeze kose buriya nawe ukeneye umugabo nkuko wabivuze, aho kugirango uzane undi utari papa w’umwana wakwemera uwo, ndakeka ko n’umwana azishima, nzi yuko amaze kwiga ukurikije ukuntu yagutaye, akanakora divorce nuriya mugore wundi, gusa nimusezerana, musezerane ivanga mutungo muhahano, akawe wari umaze kwibikaho ntakagireho uburenganzira kuko ntiwamenya……ikindi kandi ndumva nuwo mwana mwabyaranye nawe amazekuba mukuru mubiganireho. kandi mukuguta, wibuke neza uruhare rwawe….unarebe icyatumye atandukana n’uriya mugore……hanyuma ufate umwanzuro. Burya mu buzima buri wese akeneye umufasha.. yaba umugabo cg umugore
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Ntayindi mpamvu rero itumye ngaruka ni ukubashimira byimazeyo ku nama mwangiriye zose muri rusange zivuga kimwe nanjye nkaba nakuyemo umwanzuro ufatika kandi utazatuma nicuza.
Imana ikomeze ibarinde kandi ibahe umugisha.
Wamubyeyi we rero baca umugani ngo umanika agati wicaye wajya kukamanura ugahagarara,njye ndabona uri mukuru bihagije sinumva impamvu ushobora guha umwanya uyu mugabo ngo agukinishe nkaho ari umwana wibyariye,umugabo ni umwana wundi ubimenye ntampuhwe nanke afite,ese wibwirako ingo zose zisazana aruko haba harimo urukundo hagati y,umugore n,umugabo,ariko abagabo akenshi bafatwa nabana bakabazirikira kubagore babo bakabasha kwihanganira bimwe mubitagenda neza kubwo kwanga kwibabariza abana,none tekereza kuri ibi bintu 3:1.umugabo yakweretseko agukunda nawe umwereka urukundo,abonye aguteye inda aba agiye gushaka abandi,bisobanuyeko ntabwo yari yagukunze ahubwo ryari irari ry,ubusambanyi yaragufiteho,kuko sinavugako yajyanjywe nuko wari usanzwe ufite umwana kuko mwagiye kugera aho agutera inda abizi,keretse nimba wari warabimuhishe akabimenya nyuma aho nakubwirako ikosa ryabaye iryawe bityo nkagusaba nokumubabarira.2.Kuva agutaye ntiyigeze afata inshingano zo kugufasha umwana we,wenda tuvugeko yarafite ikibazo cy,undi mugore wamubujije kwita kumwana we,ariko nabyo abandi iyo bakunda abana babo babishyiramo ubushake ukabibona ntaguhe ibikwiye kuko urugorwe nabyo byarusenya ariko wenda akakwereka ubushake,ibyo mbonako bitigeze bibaho.3.wavuzeko hashize imyaka 15,nkuyemo 4 babanye nundi mugore hasigara imyaka 11,nonese mbere nimba yarabuzwaga n,umugore we wambere kwita kumwana mwabyaranye muriyo myaka yindi yabujijwe niki kwita kumwana we kdi ko uvugako ubushobozi abufite,icyo nakubwira rero nuko uyu mugabo ntamugabo umurimo,ntampuhwe za kibyeyi namba yifitemo,nonese umbwirako utarakunze uwo mwabyaranye reka aze mubane rero ahangayikishe nuwo wundi wabyaye bwa 1,ahubwo nugira ibyago nimba ari umukobwa ,uzasange aramuguharitse usangire umugabo nuwo ubyaye ,Ndangije nkwisabira rwose kudahungira ubwayi mukigunda,uru rugo ushaka kubaka ntamahoro namba uzarugiriramo burya abagabo bimico mibi ,ntibatana no kubonako abandi aribo ba kabutindi oroshya umwemerere doreko mutigeze munabana ngo amenye imico yawe maze ajye ayigereranya niyuwo babanye mumyaka 4 wowe aboneko uri ruharwa agute nta nimyaka 2 mumaranye,ese ubwo urumva uzaba ujya imbere cg uzaba usubira inyuma,Ahasigaye nahawe ubwo uzahitamo hamwe nizindi nama wahawe.
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UBANZE MWIPIMISHE SIDA,UMWICAZE MUGANIREUREBE KO MUGANIRE NK’UMUNTU MUKURU IYO UMUNTU AKUBWIZA UKURI NIYO AKUBESHYA BURYA URAMUMENYA.UREBE NIBA ATIRUKA INYUMA Y’ABAGORE CG INZOGA KUKO NIBYO MIZI Y’INGESO MBI ZOSE,MBERE ASHOBORA KUBA YARATINYE GUTWARA UMUGORE UFITE UMWANA UTARI UWE,KUKO SIBENSHI BABYIHANGANIRA,MAZE UHITEMO KUKO NO KUBAHO WENYINE S’UMUGISHA KANDI N’UMWANA WE ASHOBORA KWISHIMA.gUSA BIZAKUGORA KURERA ABANA BAFITE ABABYEYI BATANDUKANE.PFUKAMA USABE IMANA YAWE IGUHITIREMO,URAKOZE
Umva nshuti mureke wekwemera, yarakwanze aribeshya none byaramucanze ngo agiye kuku garukira imyaka ishize ni myinshi ye kukufata nka pine ya reserve ukenera iyo indi itobotse..
Ariko se nkubaze mada, ubwo wowe urumva hejuru y’ibyo yagukoreye muri iyo myaka yose hari urukundo agufitiye ahubwo se urumva ari ibintu wakagombye gusabamo inama? umuntu utekereza ubona ibiri hanze aha kandi mukuru wakagombye kwifatira umwanzuro kuko n’uruhinja rukivuka rwaguha umwanzuro. Reka uwo mugabo utuze utegereze uwo imana izaguha keretse nawe niba wumva umushaka ariko ntacyo azakugezaho irerere umwana.
iritavuze umwe rwose!!!! uru ni urucabana !!!!
Uwo mureke nta rukundo agufitiye namba azakugira uko yagenze uwo wundi
Wasanga uwo mugabo yagaruka mukabana neza akagukunda, ariko kubera ibyo yakoze sibyo kubabarirwa. Wajya utuma n’abandi bitwara batyo kuko nanjye byambayeho. Ati nzajenda njye ubuzima nyuma y’imyaka itanu nzagaruka. Imana idusaba kubabarirana, ariko kubabarirana si uko, upfa kutamugambanira byahungabanya ubuzima bwe. Naho kuby’umwana, niba yaragusabye ko umumuha ngo amurere, ukanga cyangwa se ntimwumvikane byamutera uburakari akifata atyo. Ikibazo ni ukuguta nta kosa wamukoreye iyo myaka yose. Buriya yabonye ko ubuzima atariko yabutekerezaga. Ubuzima rero si loto, yakwiciye ubwawe rwose mureke, cyokora niyikosora k’umwana muzarebe uburyo mwabyumvikanaho bizafasha n’umwana. Gusa niwowe uzafata ifirimbi yanyuma.
Ese agarutse akijijwe?niba ataribyo reka nkwibwirire madame mu kinyarwanda baravuga ngo akabaye icwende ntikoga.Ashobora kuba afite imivumo imugendaho abanyarwanda benshi barayifite bakizwa no gukunda Imana bakanayisenga byukuri.Ibindi ntibazakubeshye theories nyinshi namashuri menshi ninama nyinshi ntizipfa gukiza umuntu.Ibyo ni nko kunywa paracetamol urwaye malaria,icyo gihe ukira byakanya gato ukongera ukaremba.Inama nziza nukumenya niba ukijijwe neza kandi nawe niba agarutse yarakiriye Yesu byukuri.Murakoze
Wizuyaza ” Kumuhakanira”, 1. Yashatse undi mugore uhari;2. Urivugira ko muri iyo myaka yose atitaye kumwana we ( no humanity he hold);3. Yagusabye umwanawe ngo amwirere., Bivuze ngo wowe ntagushaka. But he may desire you in any instant of time, not all live need.4. hhhhiiiiii, Fata ikemezo watekerejeho neza. Tegura ejo hazaza heza h’ abana bawe, wibahemukira.
ATTENTION; Nyuma y’imyaka 15 ni iki kikwemeza ko agaruwe n’urukundo? (Jyewe ndakubwira nk’umugabo) BIRASHOBOKA CYANE KO AGARUTSE NYUMA YO GUKORA IMIBARE, urugero ashaka amasaziro meza nyuma ya ECHEC aho aturutse. IKINDI HARI INGARUKA UGOMBA KWITEGURA; UMUGORE WE AZABYIFATAMO ATE? NAHO ABANA BABO? (mushobora no kuzahura n’ikibazo cy’umutekano)
Umva nkugire inama mugore mwiza,Icya mbere umugabo wawe ajya kuguta mwari mufitanye gahunda yo kurwubaka ndetse yaranaguteye inda, ubwo hari impamvu yamuteye kuguta. Iyo mpamvu ashobora kuyikubwira cyangwa ntayikubwire. Ajya gutandukana n`uwo bari bubakanye nabwo hari indi mpamvu kandi niwe yari yahisemo imbere yawe.Mbere y`uko ushaka kumwemerera ngo mubane banza umenye izo mpamvu zombi urebe niba ubu zitabaho ngo zitume mwongera gutandukana. Wavuze ko utabona ko ashaka kuguprofita, ariko ashobora kuba ar`umuntu ufite imico yakugora kwihanganira, mbese nk`uko uwakubanjirije byagenze cyangwa se nawe ubwe akaba ar`umuntu ushaka guhora ahindagura abagore. bityo bikaba byatuma mutarambana. Buriya ingeso iraraba ntihwera. Kuva yaragutaye ntagufashe yarafite ubushobozi. uyu munsi akaba ashaka ko mubana nyuma ya 15 years. ndakuburira ko ni munabana azongera akaguta cyangwa akagukorera andi mafuti kuko umugabo nk`uwo jyewe mubona mo irresponsabilite Kandi uriya niyo kamere ye nta cyamuhindura.
Ariko se rwose urumva uwomugabo arimuzima cg agufitiye urukundo koko? mubyukuri umuntu umugabo ashobora kugutera inda ariko ntagushake birasanzwe, ariko rwose akita kumwana we ukobishobotse. None uti arifashije sukuguprofita???? sha rwose ntabumuntu uwomugabo afite ndkurahiye peeeee. umuntu wibagirwa uwoyabyaye kugera imyaka 15????? OYAAAAAAAAA, yabuze umwitaho kwibana byamunaniye none arashaka ibiryo na care nibindi adahruka naho mukobwa mwiza, don’t think about retaining love from that so called husband.
vraiment uwo si umugabo ,ahubwo amaze gukumbura gusa ntakindi naguhaga azongera agutemukatire vuba vuba
SALUT ntabwo binshobokeye ko nakwibwira,ariko mfite ibibazo byenda kumera nki byawe,uwo mugabo ni umugome aje ngo yongere akugirire nabi yigendere,mureke uzishakire undi,ba bihemu ntibaruhuka ma chere,inama njye naguha nuguhunga iyo mungu,ushatse ko nkuganirira andika [email protected] nakugirinama nzima twembi tuka debat kuriyo sujet merci queDIEU TE GARDE.
Umva muvandi garuka ku mana wavuze ko ufite abana babiri badahuje base, mu byukuri uwo mugabo nkurikije uko wabisobanuye ku bemera ba ba kristo nubwo uwo mugabo wamusanga si uwawe kuko afite isezerano nuwo batandukanye ni mubana muzaba muri mucyaha cy’ubusambanyi kuko basezeranye kuzatandukanywa nu rupfu reka ibyo rero kuko uwo mugabo si uwawe umbabarire njye nkurikje uko ijambo ry’Imana rivuga kirazira gushaka umugabo cg umugore uwo bashakanye mbere akiriho.
Nange nakugira inama yo kutemera uwo mugabo ngo mubane, agume iwe nawe ugume iwawe, abanze yite ku mwana yabyaye ese ubundi avuga ko yari yarabibujijwe niki? kuki atafashaga umwana we? ese ubundi ubwo uwo mwana aramukunda? udakunda umwana yibyariye se wowe yagukunda ate? ese ubwo abuwo mugore batandukanye bo byibura arabasura? arabakunda? banza urebe niba yifitemo ubumuntu cyangwa yikunda kugiti cye, kuko umugabo si izina gusa, agomba kuba afite ubumuntu, urukundo nusanga adakunda abana be umenye ko nawe atazigera agukunda na rimwe, umureke Imana izaguha uwawe, jya uyibisaba.
NAKUGIRA INAMA YO KUMUJYANA MU BUTABERA BAKAMUCA INDEZO UBUNDI UKAMUREKA KUKO UWO AJYA AHO BYOROSHYE NIBIKOMERA AZONGERA AGUCIKE
Muraho mwese, Reka nkugire inama madam. Wikwita uwo muntu umugabo wawe kuko ntimwigeze mubana kandi na none ubugabo si butumbi ni ibikorwa. Ese urumva hari inama zikenewe? umuntu yaguteye inda akimara kumva ko utwite akwicaho,2. ntiyigeze yifuza no kwita ku mwana yabyaye kuko umugabo nya mugabo akunda urubuto rumuvuyemo, 3.wowe ubwawe ntiyigeze agukunda na gato kuko ajya gushaka uwo mukobwa wundi yagusize mu gisebo aguhindura ubusa imbere ye bivuze ko icyo mwapfanaga ari ukugusambanya,4.ese mu myaka 15 umaze utarigeze ubana nawe cg ufashwe nawe hari iigikomere cyabyo waba ufite kikubujije amahoro ngo wumve ko ariwe mugabo wubuzima bwawe? Ntakubeshye rero njye no kungera mu maso ntiyahagera kuko umuntu nkuwo nta kiza aba akwifuriza nta n’urukundo aba agira aba azanywe n’ikimwaro cyo kwibaza niba ashaka umugore wa gatatu. Ndakubwiza ukuri nta BUMUNTU AFITE N’INYAMASWA MU ZINDI.Gusa usabwe kumubabarira nkuko IJAMBO RY’IMANA RIBIVUGA, ariko bitavuze ko imbabazi=kubana, ubundi utuze urere abana bawe kandi usabe Imana ubwenge no kuyoborwa nayo , uyihe ibyifuzo byawe nayo izagufasha gufata icyemezo ushobora no kuzabona umugabo w’ubuzima bwawe bwose ugukunda kandi akakwitaho. Murakoze
banza ubisengera, impuhwe atakugiririye mbere sinzi aho zaba ziturutse. Gusa nemera ko umuntu ashobora kwisubiraho amaze kubona ingaruka zo guhemuka. nubwo urukundo rwanya rwari rushingiye kuburaya (irari) ntabwo rwari urwo kubaka urugo. Ubwo fiancaille yo kubaka nibwo yaba igiye gutangira. nshuti itonde nkuko witondera abandi basore bagiye baza kukurambagiza. icyakora echec ishobora gutuma umuntu afata ingamba nzima. Niba yarakubwiye impamvu akugarukiye ugasanga yuvikana, kandi akagusaba imbabazi z’ubuhemu bwe, ubitekerezeho ariko igishe Imana inama. icyo nkwiriza n’ukubona umugabo atari uwo muhemu. kndi nugumya kubisengera bizashoboka. wamenya ari nde mpamvu y’ugutandukana kwabo? zibaye aringezo z’uwo mugabo nawe zikazakunaniza wabigenza ute? wazicuza kurisha uko waba uri wenyine.
Yewe mupfasoni wewe waririnze imyaka 15 urera abana bawe, ntamfashanyo yo kurera uwo mwana yagusigiye. None niki kikwemeza ko yahindutse bacu umugani : ingeso iraraba ntipfa. Uwo mugabo nta kigongwe afise uwanze uwo yavyaye wumva yo kunda nde? Wewe heba uwo muntu mubi ,arashaka aho agabaniriza amawazo (les soucis) Jewe nguhanura sino kongera no kumutekereza abagabo beza uzabona uwo IMANA izaguha nihagera :USabe IMANA kuko ishobora vyose..Ariko uwo umukure kuri mubitekerezo vyawe.
madam rwose hari ibintu bibiri ugahitamo cyimwe,1.niwiyemeza kumushaka uzitegure ingaruka mbi na kababaro karuta ako wagize mbere.2 umuretse ukaguma uko wari wimereye byazaguhirwa kurushaho hari wazabona uguhoza amarira atanabonetse wakomeza ikirera abana bakabaho neza utishyize munzangano na matiku ya bakeba
muraho neza,singiye kuguca intege ariko nakugira inama yo kureka uwo mgabo kuko yaguhemukiye mukundanye kd muri gupanga kubana arangije araguta asanga undi nawe aramuta .ese nyuma yuwo basezeranye ntahandi yagiye ko wumva we bamaranye imyaka ine gusa?nawe mbwira ushyire murugero aragutaye,ashatse undi nawe amutanye abana babiri none ngo aragarutse.ese nakenera gusubira kuri wawundi bbafitanye abana 2 uzabigira ute ?nta gahunda afite ntanubwo ashobotse ahubwo ndumva ashaka kubakina nk’udutenesi.ndabyumva uramukunda kd nimugihe ni se w’ umwana wawe ariko ntugomba kwisukaho umuruho ukiri muto.tuza usenge Imana izaguha uwawe ugukwiriye.murakoze
umbabarire kuba nkuhaye inama ntinze ariko ibibibazondabizi cyane ntiwemere na gato abagabo ninkabana arashaka affection gusa kwibana byamucanze atangiye gusaba uwo yimye,wapi sha.
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